Success vs. Joy
- LIII -
Harmony with Family
Y our loved ones have to understand that before an important match you can’t be in a negative frame of mind. Many have ruined their joy at work because their partners have not been supportive.
Many battles have been lost and will continue to be lost because of partners being nervous, minutes before the main event.
I was lucky to establish a mutual understanding with my partner from the very beginning. It is critical to maintain harmony in this relationship.
If you find that you have been unable to establish a good foundation with your partner and that there is constant tension in the air before a critical match, then try and get away from home a few days before the match and blank out any distraction that this may create.
You can deal with only one thing at a time. It is hard for the mind to negotiate relationships with one’s partner and simultaneously focus 100 percent on your stroke and game.